The impetus to my second article on my trip to Des Moines was, unfortunately, driving by Wahlert High School in Dubuque, Iowa. Somewhere around noon on Earth Day there were a couple of dozen kids roaming around the grounds of the high school with their green shirts on presumably picking up trash to help the environment. Seeing those young people reminded me of my trip, listening to Des Moines talk radio and my disappointment in the failure of our generation to properly educate our children.
The weekend after Iowa Supreme Court broke from their mandate and allowed gay marriage in Iowa, I noticed one of the people on my facebook friends list had joined a group supporting the decision. I was quite surprised this friend had joined this group so I checked it out and found much of what I expected: a pro-gay marriage facebook group. What I didn’t expect was the three dozen or so Mazzuchelli Middle School students on this list and a handful of Wahlert student members as well. For those of you not from Northeast Iowa, this is the Catholic middle school and high school in Dubuque, Iowa. Imagine my surprise that Catholic school students were so misinformed on the issue when they go to a school where it is permissible to talk about these issues. This will not be about the failures of the Catholic School system to properly form the consciences of young people. Instead, I will discuss the broader issue of education on the important issues of our time.
Des Moines afternoons are ruled by Steve Deace, a conservative radio host who brings the issues of the day to the radio. Much of the discussion during my time in Des Moines was devoted to the gay marriage issue including a guest appearance by a formerly gay individual who was featured in the movie Milk. During his discussion against gay marriage, there was a particularly sad time when he was talking about the arguments of the gay marriage proponents. Basically, he pointed to Mel Gibson and the numbers of self-identified Christians getting divorces and the sad fact that the divorce rate is the same among Christians versus non-Christians. Steve Deace had no understanding of the Catholic Church rules of annulments and sounded not only mis-informed but someone who was grasping at straws to defend against the gay marriage proponents. This is a perfect example of the failings of our party to do a good job of explaining the why we believe what we believe.
Conservatives, and particularly Christian Conservatives, would do well to stop thinking solely in terms of faith and start using their brains. That’s not to say we should check our beliefs at the door but rather understand how to achieve our intended goal. Steve Deace couldn’t or wouldn’t put his finger on it. We can no longer afford to hold up our bibles and use it for the basis of everything. Don’t send me hate mail about this because I am NOT saying the bible shouldn’t be the basis of our belief system, only that we can’t use it to argue everything in the public realm. Christians from different denominations can’t even agree with the interpretations of the bible or even what books are included, so let’s learn this lesson NOW and not later. Our faith gives us the wisdom and insight to understand what is right and wrong and the conviction and strength to fight for it, but it cannot be the sole reason for our arguments for or against something.
So here comes the question; how do we argue without basing it on our faith. Answer: use logic.
1. What is the role of government in moral matters?
2. The role of government is to enact laws that promote positive outcomes for those in society who would be adversely affected by an action.
Take this to the smoking, drinking, speed limit, welfare, medicaid etc. etc. etc. We are enacting laws that use history, logic and statistics to support them. But when it comes to the moral debates, we throw this away, grab our bibles and begin to preach. The “this is the way it is” arguments do not work in debates and do not change people’s minds. Ask yourself why people believe that gay marriage is OK or why so many people will say they are PERSONALLY pro-life but believe it is a woman’s choice to decide. Conservatives have failed to argue with logic the reasons why these evils are not acceptable. Instead, liberals have succeeded in giving people a way to believe that is contrary to their belief system because it seems to make sense on the surface. Those people were never forced to logically defend their belief or given enough information to tip the scales.
Let’s return to the Catholic students supporting gay marriage. They view it not as a moral issue but a civil rights issue. The teachers and parents and mentors have failed in their quest to form these student’s conscience. The Iowa Conference of Catholic Bishops did a nice job in explaining this, not in religious terms, but in logical terms:
This unwarranted social engineering attacks the good that marriage offers to society, especially the good of children, and weakens the critical relationship between marriage and parenting. We will resolutely continue to protect and promote marriage as a union between a man and a woman because of its unique and historical contribution to the common good.
Why can’t conservatives use this logic when arguing this issue? Why don’t we force people to defend why it is OK for gays to be married and not polygymists? They can’t argue against one without arguing against the other. We won’t change hard core liberals with education, but we will change young people’s minds and those who believe it is wrong. They want to understand why they believe what they are told to believe and it is our duty to explain it to them.